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Powerful lessons about love — Hellen Chen’s Love Seminar Completion on March 8

Posted by on Mar 21, 2014 in Articles, Blog, Events | 0 comments

Powerful lessons about love — Hellen Chen’s Love Seminar Completion on March 8

Our 6th US Love Seminar completed on a high note on March 8 - International Women's Day. It was a fun and deep seminar as Hellen goes into the misconceptions and false conditions men and women have towards a marital partner. As one attendee has commented, "These conditions made a person less able to love." Success Stories ❤ When you want to love someone, you have to practice HOW to love. It does not come automatically. I like Hellen's teaching on the basics I need to learn about love.  - A.C Counsellor. ❤ After today's practice session and seminar, I can create a deeper love with my child and my husband. -- J. W Teacher ❤ Today, I've found out how to improve myself to become better in love. I learn to discard all conditions imposed on my better half and to really be independent, and love him well. - E. Z Executive ❤ My conditions for love are getting less and I am having more freedom to love. Hellen helps me understand life! -- P.B CEO ❤ This seminar is very practical and to the point. I think it's time for me to step out and meet people. -- R.K Music Teacher ❤ I like the practice session on how to express my feelings. It's important to learn how to communicate and know how to promote myself. -- V.C Designer ❤ After this seminar, I cherish my wife even more and can tell her so much more! -- S. C Training Supervisor ❤ Practice, practice and more practice in order to have a high quality love life. -- C. C Researcher.   Click here to learn about the next love seminar dates  ...

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Season of Love in Singapore

Posted by on Mar 20, 2014 in Articles, Blog | 0 comments

Season of Love in Singapore

How wonderful to celebrate Chinese New Year and the Western Valentine’s Day in Singapore! For a couple of decades, I know this country of wonder. It is impressive: it keeps growing, keeps changing, like a child who never stops to learn and change. I’m so lucky to be here in this season and share my love. The streets are pretty. Food variety is plentiful. Air is happy. I’ll blend myself into this colorful world and center of Asia. I love to keep coming back to Singapore -- enjoy the bright lights and be charmed by the energy. Good morning Singapore, I admire you! Good afternoon Singapore, may this be the best year ever! Good bye Singapore, for now. I surely will come back to visit you.   Love, Hellen...

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The most valuable skill in this world is communication.

Posted by on Mar 3, 2014 in Blog, Events | 0 comments

The most valuable skill in this world is communication.

How we present our words will mean a huge difference in the results! For a business, the correct words (communication) in great volume will mean more customers whereas indifferent communication will mean the competitors getting more business. How are you communicating with your loved ones around you – including your spouse, children and parents or someone you are trying to pursue in a romantic relationship? Are you creating a more loving relationship as a result? It does matter if you have the best intention for another person. If you cannot communicate in a way that another person understand you, there will always be rejection and misunderstanding of your "good" intentions and there will be no trust nor love at the end. Can you imagine if you have found the words which will make your loved ones around you understand your intentions and listen to you? Would you like to make relationships deeper and richer with those around you? Attend Hellen Chen's Love Seminar The seminar will be held at Los Angeles: Click Here for Dates Singapore: Click Here for Dates Taiwan: Click Here for...

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Do you want a good husband or a playboy?

Posted by on Jan 6, 2014 in Blog | 0 comments

Those people who put looks as the top criteria in their search for a marriage partner often have a serious misconception about marriage. If marriage is the goal, then finding someone who has a similar goal to get married is, of course, the utmost importance. But those members of the "Looks is Everything" club have not really considered this fact. In their mind, they are going, "That person is not good-looking enough. I don't like their body shape!" What do all these criteria got to do with the goal of getting married? That means they only like the person's looks and body, all for the purpose of pleasing their own eyes. They have not thought about marriage. Unfortunately, they will be heartbroken each time. They will go on dating, looking for the next pretty girl or guy, but the eventual result is always the same – failure. If you choose a partner to marry because you would like to form a family, maybe have 3 kids, and be a good parent, you will do everything you can to give birth, to make more money for the family, etc. There will be no problem with such a relationship. But if you have no plans whatsoever for marriage, all you care for is to float around in the sea of romance, then if someone you meet did marry you, there will be tremendous problems in the end. A man who desires marriage is looking for a family. A woman is looking for a home. So who should you marry? Of course, you must marry the man who wants a family. If you only care for looks and appearances, you will marry a guy or girl who most likely will cheat on you, and separation and divorce will be the case. It makes a huge difference in what you place your emphasis on. End of excerpt from Hellen Chen’s Love Seminar Book   AGREE OR DISAGREE? FACEBOOK USERS ARE WELCOMED TO LEAVE YOUR COMMENTS BELOW: TO LEARN MORE HELLEN CHEN’S LOVE SEMINAR – #1 BESTSELLING BOOK on MARRIAGE AND RELATIONSHIPS, CLICK HERE.    ...

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Hellen Chen’s Love Seminar: To Love or Be Loved is an Ability

Posted by on Oct 27, 2013 in Articles, Blog, Events | 0 comments

Hellen Chen’s Love Seminar: To Love or Be Loved is an Ability

Why do some married couples break up easily? Why do some singles have a hard time finding the "right" person? Hellen shares some answers at the Hellen Chen's Love Seminar event     If you have been searching for answers to: How to have a lasting and happy marriage? How to find the person who truly suits you as a partner? Click here to get the Hellen Chen's Love Seminar Book Barnes and Noble best-selling book in 7 categories: #1 Bestseller in Marriage #1 Bestseller in Relationship #1 Bestseller in Dating #1 Bestseller in Love & Romance #1 Bestseller in Divorce #1 Bestseller in Self-Help (Paperback) #1 Bestseller in Parenting & Family For a Limited Time Only Purchase the book and receive free gifts! Click here for...

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Hellen Chen’s Love Seminar in Los Angeles Oct 12

Posted by on Oct 14, 2013 in Articles, Blog, Events | 0 comments

Hellen Chen’s Love Seminar in Los Angeles Oct 12

Hellen Chen's Love Seminar in Los Angeles Enthralled Audiences from All Age Group Hellen brings fresh knowledge, and energy, to the topic of how to find love and keep it enduring. Successes Shared by Attendees I have already missed the right timing in the past. But at least I know now, I could help the next generation not to miss those vital lessons in their lives. I feel great that I have come to this seminar! – M.H. Education Supervisor Now I could see how happy people in general have a happy marriage, and how unhappy people are always unhappy unless they change. – R.W. Medical Lab Technician Change myself first, and many problems will have their answers. That’s wonderful! – S.W. Education Supervisor I was puzzled why I had failed in my past relationship despite dated for 10 years. After this seminar, I totally realized what I have done wrong. Today, I know more on how to help my marriage, and make my husband happy --and this is my wish! – V.K. Sales Manager I rekindled the feeling when I have first fallen in love at the beginning of our marriage. I really enjoyed this seminar and learn a lot! – N.C. Executive Director I learn the importance of “keeping the mood” and “keeping the space.” They are such great viewpoints for a healthy relationship! – J.W. Tutor It is very entertaining and full of great advices! – J. J. Software Engineer I learned we have to look at ourselves first to improve our relationship. – K. S. Dentist If not for this seminar, I will never understand why it is important to learn certain skills for a child or teenager. This is fantastic education! – C.H. Personal Consultant I had past chances to practice how to love but I missed all of them when I was younger. It’s my turn to "chase" my wife – I’ll make her happier than ever before! – A.W. Engineer What Hellen says I have always believed in but because of one excuse or another, I passed up the chances to be with girls I felt I could be with forever. This seminar restored my beliefs about relationships. I enjoyed the seminar very much! – N.B. Counselor  Next Love Seminar Events: Taipei, Taiwan Dec 7 and Dec 14 Singapore Feb 15 2014 Los Angeles March 8 2014 If you wish to receive our newsletter that provides more information about our events, please write us HERE to be added to our emailing list.  ...

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Have Looks, Have Money But No Honey – Career Professionals Who Could Not Settle Down

Posted by on Sep 30, 2013 in Blog | 0 comments

According to a new report by the University of Virginia National Marriage Project called “Knot Yet: The Benefits and Costs of Delayed Marriage in America," the age at which men and women marry is now at the highest of all time —27 for women, and 29 for men. The report revealed that Americans of all classes are postponing marriage to their late twenties and thirties for two main reasons, one economic and the other cultural. Ninety-one percent of young adults believe that they must be completely financially independent to be ready for marriage. The report also mentioned that culturally, young adults have come to see marriage as a “capstone” rather than a “cornerstone”— something they do after they have all their other ducks in a row, rather than a foundation for launching into adulthood and parenthood. The only question is: what if by the time they do have 'all their ducks in a row,' they have also lost the chances of meeting the right person and perhaps even gone past the biological time frame of birth-giving, for both males and females? Hellen Chen, marital expert and bestselling author, whose recent book "The Matchmaker of the Century" became a bestseller in marriage and relationship books on Barnes and Noble, has a first-hand experience with men and women who would like to have children but missed the chances when they were younger. Having developed the reputation of assisting those who have the least chance to find a right match to actually tie the knot, the unorthodox matchmaker said, "I get approached by individuals who are in their late 30s and 40s and even 50s. They are stable in their career and have the looks and the money. But they could not find a suitable match and many of them would like to have children." said Chen. Alice H, a media executive who has sought Chen's help, is a typical example of a highly successful professional. She has been a dedicated worker in her career and has gone in and out of dating relationships. Now reaching 40, she would like to get married and have children. However, despite good looks and financial stability, she never thinks she would end up not having any prospects. An established dentist Dr Ken approached Chen for finding a match. He would like to get married and have children. The only one strike against him: he is in his 50s. The eligible women who would fall in love with this quiet and shy doctor would have to be 10 years or more younger than him to bear children. In an interview from her home in Los Angeles, Chen talks about timing and age. "You cannot be 20 or 30 twice. Timing plays a role in career and it also plays a big role in family. Putting families on the back burner tend to let it be forgotten. We cannot turn back the clock in lost time." About the notion that it is better to wait to have more money before embarking onto marriage, Chen explained, "People think that having no money means they should not marry. But family math is different. One plus one is always more than two. When you marry and then work together and produce together, you can create more economic stability and growth." Even for divorcees who had stepped back into marriage again, Chen witnessed that simply by having the marriage foundation drove them positively in their careers, no matter how established they were already in their careers. "The power of love is great. " Chen smiled. "If hardworking individuals could spend part of their time to take care of love matters like marriage, they will do much better in all aspects of life - career, personal development and having a family future to look forward to." To assist working professionals to learn about balancing career and family, Chen started a "Love You Forever"...

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New Documentary: My Father, My Mother

Posted by on Aug 8, 2013 in Articles, Blog, Events | 0 comments

New Documentary: My Father, My Mother

Combating the soaring divorce rates in Taiwan, successful marriage consultant Hellen Chen faces the toughest relationship challenge of her life - fixing her parents' marital problems that have been going on ever since Chen was born. Here is a humorous documentary of a couple who has never stopped arguing for the last 60 years. And it is also a touching demonstration of the pure love of a daughter for her parents.  Preview "My Father My Mother"   The documentary will be shown on August 12 Monday via the Al Jazeera media network. Please visit the  link http://www.aljazeera.com/programmes/viewfinder/ on the actual day of showing to...

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A Passionate Matchmaker Helps Mother and Daughter to Find Love

Posted by on Jul 27, 2013 in Articles, Blog, Events | 0 comments

A Passionate Matchmaker Helps Mother and Daughter to Find Love

Recently in Taiwan, Hellen helped two young couples to tie the knot in the same day. One of the two brides is a young lady called Eva. Her story is a unique one. Hellen has known Eva since she was 4 years old. At that time Eva's mom was going through a bad divorce and her mom's situation caught Hellen's attention. Working with the family closely, not only did Hellen help Eva's mom regain confidence in marriage and help her get married again, Hellen also help Eva to mend her own relationship with her divorced mom and dad. 16 years later,  who would have guessed - the matchmaker found Eva the man of her dreams and she has begun her own journey with her prince charming. Congratulations to Eva and her husband Wes! And congrats to Austin and Val who are also match-made by Hellen and they got married on the same day. Below are the highlights of the special day!     Related Article: Hellen's next Love Workshop information is found HERE...

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Los Angeles Love Seminar a Huge Success!

Posted by on Jul 22, 2013 in Articles, Blog, Events | 0 comments

Los Angeles Love Seminar a Huge Success!

Hellen Chen's Love Workshop in Los Angeles completed successfully on July 20. In this seminar, we learned about what men really want to hear from women and what women really like to hear from men. Hellen talked about how to keep the love alive forever in a marriage. Here are some amazing feedback from the participants: "I learn how to be independent in a marriage and now know how to enjoy ‘problems.’ That’s a continuing ongoing energy and creation. Such a wonderful seminar! It helps me so much!" - Ging L "What I liked about today’s seminar is that what Hellen said was the concrete truth. It was not fake. Hellen spoke what she really believed and it works!" - Michael S "I realized that I spent many years trying to solve everyone’s problems around me that I was too busy to be loved or to love." - Nick B "What I like most about today’s seminar is knowing what men and women want in their relationship. I now have an idea about where I can do better in my marriage.First of all, I have to take good care of myself, be healthy, pretty and arrange my life well. Be happy. And also have more ability to handle money, life and family. Thus there will only be good things between myself and my husband, there is only love. I now really understand why don’t date before marriage. Dating could create a lot of things that aren’t real and thus create the wrong image of love and romance and yet after marriage, you don’t do the same things. But marriage is for the whole life, if there is nothing good or if there is no love in it or don’t create love, how could people stand it? I am glad that Consultant Chen helped and taught me how to do – thus I am not broken-hearted and have a happy marriage now. Thank you!" -  Tiffany H...

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A beautiful uplifting night out

Posted by on Jun 30, 2013 in Blog | 0 comments

A beautiful uplifting night out

偶爾 For once 是該去小巨蛋看看裡面有些什麼 I should check out what’s going on inside the new Taipei Arena. 陪著媽媽與員工一起逛逛 With my mom and my staff, 看了"不朽傳奇"太陽劇團的演出 we saw ‘Michael Jackson The Immortal’ performance by Cirque Du Soleil. 增添許多生活情趣 It is a very interesting experience. 也發現不少新大陸 And do discover many things from it.   看"秀"時驚嘆連連 Lots of “oohs” and “ahs” during the show. 哇!多少極限又突破 Wow! So many breakthroughs in it. 原來身體可以這樣練 With practice, a human body could do so much. 舞者這樣地堅持 With the dancers’ persistence, 表演這樣地絢麗 the performance could be so outstanding. 掉下的下巴撿不回來 It’s more than a ‘jaw-dropping’ experience, 不禁讚嘆精神之美 you could stop to admire the beauty of the human spirit.   走在車水馬龍的十字路口 Walking onto the busy intersection; 人擠人,車擠車 People bumping into the next person, cars tailing the next car. 散場後的狀觀 It is an after-show grand spectacle. 整個馬路的快樂人群 The whole street of happy faces 幸福啊 -- such happiness! 看著心滿意足的員工 Looking at my satisfied and happy staff. 媽媽快樂地擁抱著我 My mom happily hugged me, 捏捏我的臉說 pinching my face, she said, 今天好開心,謝謝! “Today really made my day. Thanks!”   夜色已深,燈火通明 The evening lights lit up the night. 紅綠燈很有精神地閃亮著 The traffic lights blink energetically. 連街燈都笑了 Even the street lights are smiling. 我的心情也更開朗了 I feel even more lifted up! 活著真好 It’s so wonderful to be alive 感恩無限 --unlimited gratitude in my heart.     陳海倫 Hellen Chen in Taipei, Taiwan   Hear more real-life stories and receive relationship tips For Email Marketing you can...

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The Oriental Pearl that Never Grows Old in My Heart

Posted by on Jun 26, 2013 in Articles, Blog | 0 comments

The Oriental Pearl that Never Grows Old in My Heart

香港,久違了 Hello, Hong Kong! It’s been a while! 年輕時,我看著你 In my youth, I looked at you. 目不轉睛 Captivated by 你的炫麗,榮華富貴 your radiance, your richness. 好一個購物天堂 What a shopping heaven! 如今,我長大了 Now, in my adulthood, 你依然屹立不搖 you still stand strong, 高姿態地站著 standing there with high altitude. 不斷的建設 Non-stop constructing, 擴展 expanding, 改變 changing, 突破 breaking limitations. 再次光臨天堂 I re-visit heaven - 應有盡有,眼花撩亂 you have EVERYTHING - a splendor to the eyes. 物換星移 Time and land change. 不一樣的你 It is a different you; 不一樣的我 it is a different me. 你榮景依然 You are still radiant, 我也更成熟了 I am more mature. 仰慕著你 Admiring you - 我心中不老的東方之珠 the Oriental Pearl that never grows old in my heart. 再次重逢 Seeing you again, 心中有無限的感動 touches me deeply. 我們都變了,也都成長了 Both of us have changed, we have grown. 你仍是天堂 You are still heaven. 我依然是我 I am still me. Love...

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An Unforgettable Dubai Tour

Posted by on Jun 8, 2013 in Articles, Blog | 0 comments

An Unforgettable Dubai Tour

杜拜 Dubai 像一個遮著面紗的神秘女郎 Is like a mystery lady with a veil 讓人充滿欣賞、好奇與遐想 Let one be filled with admiration, curiosity and imagination. 一棟棟的奇特大樓 Breath-taking skyscrapers 一座座的獨特建築 and unique architecture. 絢麗奪目的碧海白沙 Magnificent blue sea and white sand; 極盡奢華的擺設裝飾 luxurious decorations. 燈紅酒綠的不夜城 A bustling city that never sleeps; 絡繹不絕的精品店 an abundance of exquisite stores. 機場的熱鬧人潮 The airport’s lively sea of people, 叫人忘卻一切煩惱與昨天 let one forget about all worries and yesterday. 處處可見婦幼門市 There are maternity and baby stores everywhere. 叫人不得不信 You have to believe 未來及希望確實存在 the future and hope really exist! 走在這片大沙漠 Walking on this vast desert, 快樂,自由,享樂,歡笑 happiness, freedom, enjoyment, laughter. 牽著丈夫的一隻手 Holding my husband’s hand, 他的另一隻手摟著我的肩 his arm surrounds my shoulder. 如此安心又溫馨 Feel so at ease and warm at heart, 依偎在柔情擁抱 leaning on love’s embrace. 被輕捧著 Carefully being held, 躺在他的掌心中 lie in the center of his palm. 仰望著世界最高的大樓 Admiring the world’s tallest building, 上面仍有無止盡的空間 there is still unlimited space above, reaching into infinity 頓時,身邊所有龐然大物瞬間變小 At that moment, all the giant objects around me become small, 我宛若滄海一粟 I am like a drop in the ocean. 我要好好做自己 I want to be myself. 昂首闊步走在自由的大地 Heads up and taking big strides across the free land, 慢慢傾訴無限的款款深情 unlimited love is what I will forever share.   By Hellen Chen Dubai Tour 2013  ...

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Happy Mother’s Day

Posted by on May 11, 2013 in Articles, Blog, Interviews | 0 comments

Happy Mother’s Day

A mother’s work is never done, She works from morning until dawn, she spreads her love and keeps you warm. Wishing all mothers a Happy Mother's Day! How to love your mom and how to help a child if you are a mother? Family Expert Hellen Chen gives advice on Fox News TV in New...

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How to NOT Dislike Your Mother?

Posted by on May 9, 2013 in Articles, Blog | 0 comments

How to NOT Dislike Your Mother?

How to Not Dislike Your Mother (Above: Family expert Hellen Chen addressing the topic of how to love your parents/spouse despite of who they are.) As Mother's Day comes closer, some children and mothers may feel the dread of this day – as their experience of it has had been awkward and stressful. Mother's Day is traditionally a day to celebrate the love of mothers but it could very well be a day for some sons and daughters to convey to their mother that though they would still provide her with a gift, a dinner and some flowers, they could not provide the honest love that is expected -- truth be told, they do not actually feel they could honestly like their mother. And if there are special words to express, the given Hallmark cards would 'say it perfectly' for them but if those words really are how they truly feel is a whole different question. The WikiAnswers website even has an entry on Mother's Day. Other than describing how this day was celebrated by millions around the world, the entry ended with "Mother's day is only ignored by some people who do not have good relationship with their mom for one reason or the other." So to keep up with tradition and the spirit of the special day, most daughters and sons would celebrate Mother's Day but is this simply a duty to perform? What if your mother is not all that loving or caring - in your viewpoint - would you still send her a card which tells her how wonderful she is – because it is Mother’s Day? Renowned family expert and bestselling author Hellen Chen, who has been on over 200 interviews and publications sharing relationship and family advices in America, chimed in, "Many of us have had moments where we deeply dislike our parents. Maybe our parents were too negative. Maybe they were downright mean about our accomplishments or maybe they never care." "Parents are not always right and they may not always love the child." Chen said, "Parents may feel obliged to provide for the child and the child will return the obligation when he or she gets older. But this action still does not mean there is love involved from both sides." Chen said trying to force the relationship will turn the relationship into misery for both sides. Indeed. Emilie C was a divorced mother whose only daughter had ended up in the custody of her ex-husband. Feeling that she had lost everything, she desperately wanted her daughter to feel close to her -- to the point that her daughter started hating her. After counseled by Chen, Emilie discovered some hard truths. "I actually did not love my daughter. She was the last fight I had wanted to win over my ex-husband." Emilie confessed. The road back up from the bottom was a hard long road for Emilie. Chen counseled her for about 8 years and not only she later found her confidence in a new marriage but for the first time, she has also learned how to love her child – by ceasing to fight and simply letting her daughter to be herself. From the viewpoint of a child, how does one communicate to an unchanging parent whose behavior is constantly creating rifts in the relationship? Chen smiled, "Honesty plays a big part. Another part is to act yourself and be yourself. If you insist that your parent understand you, you will end up upset and disappointed. That is not necessarily their interest – to understand you.” Many experts have advised ‘open communication’ as the best way to heal a relationship, including that between a parent and a child. However, what about the heated arguments and make-wrongs that could ensue? Chen said, "If people have bottled up their feelings too long, those outbursts are natural and they are temporary. But look, those arguments would be better than a lifetime of detachment, right? The relationship will have a chance to heal because of not keeping silent.” Chen's background has been a business...

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