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How to give love and how to get love? Los Angeles Love Seminar Oct 25th

Posted by on Oct 28, 2014 in Articles, Blog, Events | 0 comments

How to give love and how to get love? Los Angeles Love Seminar Oct 25th

Hellen gets the audience to put their thinking cap on with her first question: What is the most important thing in life? The energy of the room rises 100 notches and higher when attendees realize they have received the “secret” to not just a loving relationship but to a happy life!   Success Story Love Seminar Oct 25 “I cried when I see how much my husband want me to be happy. And I understand why he supports me so much. He knows when I break through and improve, I will be super happy ! I also see my goal in life so clearly and at this seminar, I learn how I can achieve this goal through my daily actions! I feel more comfortable when I am with others, and I love people even more! This seminar is amazing!  — KL, Sales Executive “I see how life is simple — because I become certain of my goal in life and the way to attain it. I clearly see how I have wasted time and energy in the past. From today onwards, I will use full energy towards the “right” places to swiftly attain my dreams.” –  F.W, TaiChi Master “This seminar resolved my problems in my marriage! I used to think my spouse created such problems which I am helpless to resolve. But now I know the problem is actually on me! I do have a good marriage. I simply need to enjoy it and improve myself at the same time.” — S.C, Supervisor “What I like best about the seminar is how Hellen focuses on the basics of marriage and how it ties in with happiness and the goal in life. I learn that if I do not improve myself, there is simply no happiness to enjoy! I am very energized and touched by what Hellen demonstrated and presented!” — J.T, Single Mom “I finally know how to fall in love with myself. I appreciate what others do for me and can see the good qualities of others. I now understand how to love others. I will be improving my ability to love from this point onwards. My future is filled with hope and happiness! :)” — A.C, Teacher “I learn how to channel my energy towards the right areas of life, especially on my goals. When I can lift another person up through my communication, I get positive energy back! I must learn how to present myself confidently and never waste my time anymore, so that I can achieve my goals!” — C.H, Marketing Exec “Hellen helps me to sort out what is my goal, what do I care most in life. There is no time to complain and be critical because there are too many good things to enjoy and catch in life — there is simply no time for bad things.” — T.H, Consultant “I have never thought my own improvement will create happiness for 2 persons in a relationship. Hellen teaches me the basic mechanics of how to be in a successful loving relationship. I can enjoy love and grow old happily with my better half!” — Sal Z, Admin Executive  ...

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The True Love & Happy Marriage Seminar Completion Sep. 6 2014

Posted by on Oct 2, 2014 in Articles, Blog, Events | 0 comments

The True Love & Happy Marriage Seminar Completion Sep. 6 2014

Thanks to all who came to my Sep 6 2014 Love Seminar in Los Angeles. It was so great to see everyone! Wow! We had a great time, didn’t we? Thanks for your feedback and acknowledgements! I like to share below the touching success stories which the attendees have mentioned: Love Seminar success stories I had thought I was a hopeless case for marriage. Hellen showed me I can break through the limitations I have imposed on myself. I feel a surge of new energy to confront the future. — J. S. Sales Executive I wish I have attended this class many years ago. I see what I was missing in my past relationships. I highly recommend the love seminar for those who want a happy lasting relationship. — N. B Consultant When Hellen spoke about the biggest mistake women make in a relationship, I knew this mistake has created lots of hardship in my current relationship. Thanks to Hellen, I now know how to create more love and happiness with my partner! — J. C Business Owner After I have retired, I have become too lazy to socialize and meet people. Hellen woke me up to the fact I was not living life anymore. Ilike to make myself more attractive and seek love! — E. H Retired Bank Manager I have read many books and attended seminars on the subject of love. I did not think I would learn anything from this seminar. Boy, am I surprised! I cannot wait to go and use the techniques learned here towards my search for my soul mate! — A. A Fashion Designer After marriage and with the birth of a son, my husband and I drifted apart. This seminar taught me the importance of keeping up the passion in a marriage. Thanks Hellen! You gave me a very clear road I could travel on — a road of self-betterment and thus happiness! — V. F Secretary I used to think that marriage is simply being together and try to get along with each other from day to day. I have never thought about building a future together. I know my next marriage will be very different because of what I learn today — Y. C Marketing...

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How do you get a “good” relationship?

Posted by on Sep 30, 2014 in Articles, Blog | 0 comments

How do you get a “good” relationship?

I have marked down the key points I talked about in the video so you can get to those section faster: Why if you try so hard to look for perfection, you will be “trapped”? (1:19) What is going on when someone wants a divorce? (2:11) When a relationship has become boring, what is really happening? (3:15) How do you get a “good” relationship? (3:53) What happen after you fall in love? How do you keep up the relationship? (4:10) Love is simple. There are no reasons needed. (4:25) The love seminar teaches you all you need to know about LOVE. See you soon at the next event HERE. If you have any questions, please feel free to contact me HERE. Love,...

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How do I know that my marriage will be everlasting and never fail?

Posted by on Aug 13, 2014 in Blog | 0 comments

This is a question asked of me by many singles and also by men or women who felt they had not made it in past relationships. Most of us would like someone to love us unconditionally. Most of us think that if we can find that “perfect” partner, our problems will be solved. But very few people want to learn how to love another unconditionally. Even fewer people strive to become the “perfect” partner for another. This is indeed not easy. But do you know? Giving and loving unconditionally is an ability that can be learned and practiced! It is just like running a business. Do you think there is such a thing as a “failure-proof” business? No, of course not. Even the Titantic, which was deemed as unsinkable, did not survive its maiden voyage. But one can learn how to run a successful business. One can learn from past relationship mistakes and find out what one has done wrong, and practice how to make it go right in the future. Mostly, one MUST stay true to one’s goal and never believe there is no hope and no possible happiness in relationships. There is no such a thing as failure. The only failure comes when one gives up going after his goals. I have conducted Love Seminars for men and women who are striving to achieve more happiness in relationships for several years. I have given over a thousand lectures as a speaker around the world. I have helped many individuals to resolve relationship problems. Here are the main key points: If you know the answers to your questions, you won’t feel it is unsolvable. If you can solve them, you will feel confident that you can enjoy a lasting and happy relationship. So, get going in your own learning! Here is a great Love Manual you must read if you wish to succeed in your relationships: http://matchmakerofthecentury.com/books/hellen-chens-love-seminar-book/ Come and visit me personally at these events: Los Angeles – September 6, 2014 Dubai – September 26-27, 2014 Love,...

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Love is an Ability: July 19 Seminar by Relationship Master Hellen Chen

Posted by on Jul 9, 2014 in Articles, Blog | 0 comments

Three times #1 bestselling author and relationship master Hellen Chen has helped at least 100 singles who had been skeptical about marriage to find their true love and to walk down the aisle. With a philosophy that love is an “ability” that can be improved, she travels the world to counsel singles and couples on what it takes to keep a relationship lasting and deep. Her popular Love Seminar will be coming to Los Angeles at the Hilton Hotel in San Gabriel city on July 19th Saturday. A statement that Chen has heard over and over again from men and women who were unhappy in their relationships has been “If only my partner can change for me…” “Many singles think that their biggest problem is not able to meet the right person. But the more precise reason is they don’t even know who is the right person.” said Chen, “They know what kind of person they like or dislike. However, this is no measurement of whether the person they like is right for them.” “Many men and women entered into marriage with the idea that they could change the behavior of their partner.” Chen added, “That’s wrongful thinking and the relationship often ends up in disaster.” She encouraged singles to not spend time and money and energy to go around dating but to look for someone who seriously want to enter marriage. When asked about why dating a lot to find the right partner does not work, Chen explained in a recent Fox TV interview, “When people date a lot before they get married, their hearts get broken once too often and these bad experiences accumulate. These bad experiences even carry into their marriage and the moment they encounter seemingly insurmountable hardships in the relationship, they break-off easily as they think the next gal or guy would be better.” According to Chen, a marriage is not about what another person could give to self but a chance for self to learn how to give to another. Believing that most individuals do want a loving relationship, Chen started lecturing and writing books about the subject. As a bestselling author, she has written 25 books and her book “The Matchmaker of the Century” and “Hellen Chen’s Love Seminar” became number one bestsellers in relationship books at Barnes and Noble. Chen’s works in family, marriage and personal developments are featured in over 200 media publications in 20 countries. She has been a frequent guest on independent and network radio and TV shows on FOX, CBS, NBC and ABC etc. To help singles and couples develop the ability to love, Chen has released a whole series of love workshops in Asia and in America. This upcoming event “Hellen Chen’s Love Seminar” on Saturday July 19 at Hilton Hotel in San Gabriel city is the 7th workshop Chen will be conducting in Los...

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Happy Birthday!

Posted by on Jun 12, 2014 in Blog | 0 comments

Happy Birthday!

June is my birthday month. My staff and friends arranged a wonderful birthday party for me. They performed, sang and danced – and the babies celebrated for me too! As another milestone reached, I have just finished my next 3 book series “the Art of Communication.” I have never imagined myself to be a writer. Having published over 2 million words, I feel this writing journey has been gratifying and I have grown to appreciate the art of writing even more! Thanks for your support in buying and reading my books! This is my recent bestseller on Barnes And Noble: http://matchmakerofthecentury.com/schools-teach-10-important-lessons-life/   Announcement –here are our upcoming Love Seminar dates: Love Seminar in Singapore Love Seminar in Los Angeles Love Seminar in Taiwan Love Seminar in Dubai ( September 26 and 27th. Details to be announced)    ...

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Having a Degree Vs Having the Ability to Succeed: What Schools Don’t Teach Us

Posted by on Apr 7, 2014 in Blog | 0 comments

Having a Degree Vs Having the Ability to Succeed: What Schools Don’t Teach Us

Last year, an article titled “Only 150 of 3500 US Colleges Are Worth the Investment” ran on Yahoo news and it garnered over 6000 comments online. The findings came from a book from former Secretary of Education William Bennett where he spoke about why getting a college degree today may not be worth it and why Americans should not just keep sending kids to colleges without serious consideration on the ROI. Bestselling author and management consultant Hellen Chen, who has trained and consulted top CEOs around the world and helped many colleges graduates to have working skills, gave her first-hand experience. “This may be the inconvenient truth. But in most professions, the resultant success of a person’s career has very little to do with which school a person graduates from and what degree he has.” Said Chen, after having worked with professionals from different fields in different countries in 20 years. As a CEO herself, Chen has hired various staff of different experiences and background. Some staff has not even graduated high school and some has had top degrees from prestigious universities. “It is not true that having no degree means the individual can do only mundane work and having a degree automatically makes a person the top producer. The exam system in school is simply just its own system. One may pass the exam by memorization but in actual work place, the actual skills needed are production skills, not examination skills.” Chen commented. In an interview from Los Angeles, Chen spoke about the misconception which parents have towards schooling. Chen said, “Parents naturally would like their children to do well in life. But getting a college degree is so far from any guarantee of success. Many of our young generation unfortunately follow the same mindset and thus after spending time and lots of money in colleges, they get very disappointed when they stepped into the workforce.” “There is a value of course to formal education. We need skills like reading and writing etc. But if one does not know what one wants out of schooling and just follow the crowd, one would have invested in vain with literally nothing in return.” Chen said. Chen’s new book titled “What Schools Don’t Teach You: 10 Most Important Lessons For Life” will be released in May on Barnes and Noble. Chen has written 22 books on the subject of career success, personal success, plus marriage and family success. As a consultant, she has been on over 200 media interviews in 20 countries interviewed on life issues. Chen has also been invited in Asia and in America to conduct seminars about productivity, life success and relationship...

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Powerful lessons about love — Hellen Chen’s Love Seminar Completion on March 8

Posted by on Mar 21, 2014 in Articles, Blog, Events | 0 comments

Powerful lessons about love — Hellen Chen’s Love Seminar Completion on March 8

Our 6th US Love Seminar completed on a high note on March 8 – International Women’s Day. It was a fun and deep seminar as Hellen goes into the misconceptions and false conditions men and women have towards a marital partner. As one attendee has commented, “These conditions made a person less able to love.” Success Stories ❤ When you want to love someone, you have to practice HOW to love. It does not come automatically. I like Hellen’s teaching on the basics I need to learn about love.  – A.C Counsellor. ❤ After today’s practice session and seminar, I can create a deeper love with my child and my husband. — J. W Teacher ❤ Today, I’ve found out how to improve myself to become better in love. I learn to discard all conditions imposed on my better half and to really be independent, and love him well. – E. Z Executive ❤ My conditions for love are getting less and I am having more freedom to love. Hellen helps me understand life! — P.B CEO ❤ This seminar is very practical and to the point. I think it’s time for me to step out and meet people. — R.K Music Teacher ❤ I like the practice session on how to express my feelings. It’s important to learn how to communicate and know how to promote myself. — V.C Designer ❤ After this seminar, I cherish my wife even more and can tell her so much more! — S. C Training Supervisor ❤ Practice, practice and more practice in order to have a high quality love life. — C. C Researcher.   Click here to learn about the next love seminar dates  ...

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Season of Love in Singapore

Posted by on Mar 20, 2014 in Articles, Blog | 0 comments

Season of Love in Singapore

How wonderful to celebrate Chinese New Year and the Western Valentine’s Day in Singapore! For a couple of decades, I know this country of wonder. It is impressive: it keeps growing, keeps changing, like a child who never stops to learn and change. I’m so lucky to be here in this season and share my love. The streets are pretty. Food variety is plentiful. Air is happy. I’ll blend myself into this colorful world and center of Asia. I love to keep coming back to Singapore — enjoy the bright lights and be charmed by the energy. Good morning Singapore, I admire you! Good afternoon Singapore, may this be the best year ever! Good bye Singapore, for now. I surely will come back to visit you.   Love, Hellen...

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The most valuable skill in this world is communication.

Posted by on Mar 3, 2014 in Blog, Events | 0 comments

The most valuable skill in this world is communication.

How we present our words will mean a huge difference in the results! For a business, the correct words (communication) in great volume will mean more customers whereas indifferent communication will mean the competitors getting more business. How are you communicating with your loved ones around you – including your spouse, children and parents or someone you are trying to pursue in a romantic relationship? Are you creating a more loving relationship as a result? It does matter if you have the best intention for another person. If you cannot communicate in a way that another person understand you, there will always be rejection and misunderstanding of your “good” intentions and there will be no trust nor love at the end. Can you imagine if you have found the words which will make your loved ones around you understand your intentions and listen to you? Would you like to make relationships deeper and richer with those around you? Attend Hellen Chen’s Love Seminar The seminar will be held at Los Angeles: Click Here for Dates Singapore: Click Here for Dates Taiwan: Click Here for...

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Do you want a good husband or a playboy?

Posted by on Jan 6, 2014 in Blog | 0 comments

Those people who put looks as the top criteria in their search for a marriage partner often have a serious misconception about marriage. If marriage is the goal, then finding someone who has a similar goal to get married is, of course, the utmost importance. But those members of the “Looks is Everything” club have not really considered this fact. In their mind, they are going, “That person is not good-looking enough. I don’t like their body shape!” What do all these criteria got to do with the goal of getting married? That means they only like the person’s looks and body, all for the purpose of pleasing their own eyes. They have not thought about marriage. Unfortunately, they will be heartbroken each time. They will go on dating, looking for the next pretty girl or guy, but the eventual result is always the same – failure. If you choose a partner to marry because you would like to form a family, maybe have 3 kids, and be a good parent, you will do everything you can to give birth, to make more money for the family, etc. There will be no problem with such a relationship. But if you have no plans whatsoever for marriage, all you care for is to float around in the sea of romance, then if someone you meet did marry you, there will be tremendous problems in the end. A man who desires marriage is looking for a family. A woman is looking for a home. So who should you marry? Of course, you must marry the man who wants a family. If you only care for looks and appearances, you will marry a guy or girl who most likely will cheat on you, and separation and divorce will be the case. It makes a huge difference in what you place your emphasis on. End of excerpt from Hellen Chen’s Love Seminar Book   AGREE OR DISAGREE? FACEBOOK USERS ARE WELCOMED TO LEAVE YOUR COMMENTS BELOW: TO LEARN MORE HELLEN CHEN’S LOVE SEMINAR – #1 BESTSELLING BOOK on MARRIAGE AND RELATIONSHIPS, CLICK HERE.    ...

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Hellen Chen’s Love Seminar: To Love or Be Loved is an Ability

Posted by on Oct 27, 2013 in Articles, Blog, Events | 0 comments

Hellen Chen’s Love Seminar: To Love or Be Loved is an Ability

Why do some married couples break up easily? Why do some singles have a hard time finding the “right” person? Hellen shares some answers at the Hellen Chen’s Love Seminar event     If you have been searching for answers to: How to have a lasting and happy marriage? How to find the person who truly suits you as a partner? Click here to get the Hellen Chen’s Love Seminar Book Barnes and Noble best-selling book in 7 categories: #1 Bestseller in Marriage #1 Bestseller in Relationship #1 Bestseller in Dating #1 Bestseller in Love & Romance #1 Bestseller in Divorce #1 Bestseller in Self-Help (Paperback) #1 Bestseller in Parenting & Family For a Limited Time Only Purchase the book and receive free gifts! Click here for...

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Hellen Chen’s Love Seminar in Los Angeles Oct 12

Posted by on Oct 14, 2013 in Articles, Blog, Events | 0 comments

Hellen Chen’s Love Seminar in Los Angeles Oct 12

Hellen Chen’s Love Seminar in Los Angeles Enthralled Audiences from All Age Group Hellen brings fresh knowledge, and energy, to the topic of how to find love and keep it enduring. Successes Shared by Attendees I have already missed the right timing in the past. But at least I know now, I could help the next generation not to miss those vital lessons in their lives. I feel great that I have come to this seminar! – M.H. Education Supervisor Now I could see how happy people in general have a happy marriage, and how unhappy people are always unhappy unless they change. – R.W. Medical Lab Technician Change myself first, and many problems will have their answers. That’s wonderful! – S.W. Education Supervisor I was puzzled why I had failed in my past relationship despite dated for 10 years. After this seminar, I totally realized what I have done wrong. Today, I know more on how to help my marriage, and make my husband happy –and this is my wish! – V.K. Sales Manager I rekindled the feeling when I have first fallen in love at the beginning of our marriage. I really enjoyed this seminar and learn a lot! – N.C. Executive Director I learn the importance of “keeping the mood” and “keeping the space.” They are such great viewpoints for a healthy relationship! – J.W. Tutor It is very entertaining and full of great advices! – J. J. Software Engineer I learned we have to look at ourselves first to improve our relationship. – K. S. Dentist If not for this seminar, I will never understand why it is important to learn certain skills for a child or teenager. This is fantastic education! – C.H. Personal Consultant I had past chances to practice how to love but I missed all of them when I was younger. It’s my turn to “chase” my wife – I’ll make her happier than ever before! – A.W. Engineer What Hellen says I have always believed in but because of one excuse or another, I passed up the chances to be with girls I felt I could be with forever. This seminar restored my beliefs about relationships. I enjoyed the seminar very much! – N.B. Counselor  Next Love Seminar Events: Taipei, Taiwan Dec 7 and Dec 14 Singapore Feb 15 2014 Los Angeles March 8 2014 If you wish to receive our newsletter that provides more information about our events, please write us HERE to be added to our emailing list.  ...

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Have Looks, Have Money But No Honey – Career Professionals Who Could Not Settle Down

Posted by on Sep 30, 2013 in Blog | 0 comments

According to a new report by the University of Virginia National Marriage Project called “Knot Yet: The Benefits and Costs of Delayed Marriage in America,” the age at which men and women marry is now at the highest of all time —27 for women, and 29 for men. The report revealed that Americans of all classes are postponing marriage to their late twenties and thirties for two main reasons, one economic and the other cultural. Ninety-one percent of young adults believe that they must be completely financially independent to be ready for marriage. The report also mentioned that culturally, young adults have come to see marriage as a “capstone” rather than a “cornerstone”— something they do after they have all their other ducks in a row, rather than a foundation for launching into adulthood and parenthood. The only question is: what if by the time they do have ‘all their ducks in a row,’ they have also lost the chances of meeting the right person and perhaps even gone past the biological time frame of birth-giving, for both males and females? Hellen Chen, marital expert and bestselling author, whose recent book “The Matchmaker of the Century” became a bestseller in marriage and relationship books on Barnes and Noble, has a first-hand experience with men and women who would like to have children but missed the chances when they were younger. Having developed the reputation of assisting those who have the least chance to find a right match to actually tie the knot, the unorthodox matchmaker said, “I get approached by individuals who are in their late 30s and 40s and even 50s. They are stable in their career and have the looks and the money. But they could not find a suitable match and many of them would like to have children.” said Chen. Alice H, a media executive who has sought Chen’s help, is a typical example of a highly successful professional. She has been a dedicated worker in her career and has gone in and out of dating relationships. Now reaching 40, she would like to get married and have children. However, despite good looks and financial stability, she never thinks she would end up not having any prospects. An established dentist Dr Ken approached Chen for finding a match. He would like to get married and have children. The only one strike against him: he is in his 50s. The eligible women who would fall in love with this quiet and shy doctor would have to be 10 years or more younger than him to bear children. In an interview from her home in Los Angeles, Chen talks about timing and age. “You cannot be 20 or 30 twice. Timing plays a role in career and it also plays a big role in family. Putting families on the back burner tend to let it be forgotten. We cannot turn back the clock in lost time.” About the notion that it is better to wait to have more money before embarking onto marriage, Chen explained, “People think that having no money means they should not marry. But family math is different. One plus one is always more than two. When you marry and then work together and produce together, you can create more economic stability and growth.” Even for divorcees who had stepped back into marriage again, Chen witnessed that simply by having the marriage foundation drove them positively in their careers, no matter how established they were already in their careers. “The power of love is great. ” Chen smiled. “If hardworking individuals could spend part of their time to take care of love matters like marriage, they will do much better in all aspects of life – career, personal development and having a family future to look forward to.” To assist working professionals to learn about balancing career and family, Chen started a “Love You Forever”...

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New Documentary: My Father, My Mother

Posted by on Aug 8, 2013 in Articles, Blog, Events | 0 comments

New Documentary: My Father, My Mother

Combating the soaring divorce rates in Taiwan, successful marriage consultant Hellen Chen faces the toughest relationship challenge of her life – fixing her parents’ marital problems that have been going on ever since Chen was born. Here is a humorous documentary of a couple who has never stopped arguing for the last 60 years. And it is also a touching demonstration of the pure love of a daughter for her parents.  Preview “My Father My Mother”   The documentary will be shown on August 12 Monday via the Al Jazeera media network. Please visit the  link http://www.aljazeera.com/programmes/viewfinder/ on the actual day of showing to...

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