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Season of Love in Singapore
How wonderful to celebrate Chinese New Year and the Western Valentine’s Day in Singapore! For a couple of decades, I know this country of wonder. It is impressive: it keeps growing, keeps changing, like a child who never stops to learn and change. I’m so lucky to be here in this season and share my love. The streets are pretty. Food variety is plentiful. Air is happy. I’ll blend myself into this colorful world and center of Asia. I love to keep coming back to Singapore -- enjoy the bright lights and be charmed by the energy. Good morning Singapore, I admire you! Good afternoon Singapore, may this be the best year ever! Good bye Singapore, for now. I surely will come back to visit you. Love, Hellen...
Read MoreIs money an important issue before a couple get married?
Relationship Master Hellen Chen was interviewed on 1070 WINA radio station. Hellen shared her thoughts on marriage and money. According to her, one of the biggest excuses for young people to not get married is the lack of money. It is important to find someone you want to marry not because of your money, but because of you. Once married, the husband and wife will work together to build their future, and finance will follow. Hellen is a relationship expert who has wed more than 100 individuals and continues to educate people on happy relationship and successful marriage. Hellen Chen's books "Matchmaker of The Century" and "Hellen Chen's Love seminar".are number one bestsellers at Barnes and Noble. Click here for more information on the bestselling book: Hellen Chen's Love Seminar...
Read MoreHellen Chen’s Love Seminar: To Love or Be Loved is an Ability
Why do some married couples break up easily? Why do some singles have a hard time finding the "right" person? Hellen shares some answers at the Hellen Chen's Love Seminar event If you have been searching for answers to: How to have a lasting and happy marriage? How to find the person who truly suits you as a partner? Click here to get the Hellen Chen's Love Seminar Book Barnes and Noble best-selling book in 7 categories: #1 Bestseller in Marriage #1 Bestseller in Relationship #1 Bestseller in Dating #1 Bestseller in Love & Romance #1 Bestseller in Divorce #1 Bestseller in Self-Help (Paperback) #1 Bestseller in Parenting & Family For a Limited Time Only Purchase the book and receive free gifts! Click here for...
Read MoreHellen Chen’s Love Seminar in Los Angeles Oct 12
Hellen Chen's Love Seminar in Los Angeles Enthralled Audiences from All Age Group Hellen brings fresh knowledge, and energy, to the topic of how to find love and keep it enduring. Successes Shared by Attendees I have already missed the right timing in the past. But at least I know now, I could help the next generation not to miss those vital lessons in their lives. I feel great that I have come to this seminar! – M.H. Education Supervisor Now I could see how happy people in general have a happy marriage, and how unhappy people are always unhappy unless they change. – R.W. Medical Lab Technician Change myself first, and many problems will have their answers. That’s wonderful! – S.W. Education Supervisor I was puzzled why I had failed in my past relationship despite dated for 10 years. After this seminar, I totally realized what I have done wrong. Today, I know more on how to help my marriage, and make my husband happy --and this is my wish! – V.K. Sales Manager I rekindled the feeling when I have first fallen in love at the beginning of our marriage. I really enjoyed this seminar and learn a lot! – N.C. Executive Director I learn the importance of “keeping the mood” and “keeping the space.” They are such great viewpoints for a healthy relationship! – J.W. Tutor It is very entertaining and full of great advices! – J. J. Software Engineer I learned we have to look at ourselves first to improve our relationship. – K. S. Dentist If not for this seminar, I will never understand why it is important to learn certain skills for a child or teenager. This is fantastic education! – C.H. Personal Consultant I had past chances to practice how to love but I missed all of them when I was younger. It’s my turn to "chase" my wife – I’ll make her happier than ever before! – A.W. Engineer What Hellen says I have always believed in but because of one excuse or another, I passed up the chances to be with girls I felt I could be with forever. This seminar restored my beliefs about relationships. I enjoyed the seminar very much! – N.B. Counselor Next Love Seminar Events: Taipei, Taiwan Dec 7 and Dec 14 Singapore Feb 15 2014 Los Angeles March 8 2014 If you wish to receive our newsletter that provides more information about our events, please write us HERE to be added to our emailing list. ...
Read MoreThe Biggest Mistakes Men Make in Their Relationships
Hellen is once again invited by Brian McKenna and Jeff Burton of 590AM radio station in St Louis MO to have a "heated" and fun discussion about the world of men and women. It is a no-holds-barred interview. Enjoy! You may also enjoy the previous interview "What Women Should Not Do If They Want Their Relationship to Last" Have you ever wondered what is the best way to stop being heartbroken? Learn it at Hellen Chen's Love Seminar HERE...
Read MoreLA18 TV Station Interviews the Matchmaker of the Century
The Matchmaker of the Century gets invited on Los Angeles LA18 TV station to talk about how to find a perfect match and how to have a lasting relationship. The Hellen Chen's Love Seminar, where couples and singles can learn the vital skills to maintain a happy relationship, is announced for Los Angeles, California and also for Taiwan. 陳海倫顧問-世紀大媒婆-受邀LA18“麻辣下午查”节目， 教你如何找到合適伴侶。...
Read MoreNational Smiles Week: Smile – even if it is hard to do so!
The 2nd week of August is National Smile Week. The benefits of smiling have long been talked about as covering all facets of a person’s life from personal success to health. A 2010 Wayne State University research project titled “Smile Intensity in Photographs Predicts Longevity” examined the baseball cards photos of Major League players in 1952. The study found that the span of a player’s smile is directly related to the span of his life. Players who didn’t smile in their pictures lived an average of only 72.9 years, while players with wide smiles lived an average of 79.9 years. A study revealed that children smile as many as 400 times a day whereas adults smile no more than 20 times a day. Marriage guru and unorthodox matchmaker Hellen Chen, recently interviewed in Los Angeles, said, “There are many ways to find reasons to smile. But people who are in love generally smile a lot more than people who are not in any relationship. Keeping up the ‘in-love’ feeling with a life partner is the best way to keep smiling.” Chen has been known as an unorthodox matchmaker for specially approaching people who do not wish to get married in the first place. She started off with friends and employees who were single and resisted marriage. “They were smart and competent in their work. But they were extremely skeptical and would even despise marriage itself due to past experience or having heard negative news of unhappy marriages.” said Chen, who has spent up to 8 years to get a person to eventually say “I do.” After marriage, Chen would coach the couples on how to stay in love forever. Even couples who have been married for over 20 years would attend Chen’s popular Love Seminar to rekindle the love sparks. “Smiling and having a positive state of mind have a large part to do with keeping a marriage happy and lasting. I have learned to smile a lot in my own marriage and with every year, my husband of 25 years and I love each other more.” said Chen, whose book ‘the Matchmaker of the Century’ has become the number one marriage book at Barnes and Noble. Chen’s theory is supported by a study done at DePauw University in Indiana. The researchers looked at people's college yearbook photos, and rated their smile intensity from 1 to 10. None of the people who fell within the top 10 percent of smile strength had divorced, while within the bottom 10 percent of smilers, almost one in four had had a marriage that ended. In the second experiment, the researchers asked people over age 65 to provide photos from their childhood. Their smile was rated once again and the researchers found that only 11 percent of the biggest smilers had been divorced, while 31 percent of the frowners had experienced a broken marriage. Overall, the results indicate that people who frown in photos are five times more likely to get a divorce than people who smile. “In schools, we have been taught there are always right and wrong answers. Exams trained us into a pattern of just follow the rules to pass exams. But in matters of the heart, there are no right or wrong answers. If you are generally more positive in your relationship, you will enjoy it and will have the relationship last longer than someone who are constantly negative.” said Chen. “And your reward for smiling despite of many reasons not to do so? The positive influence that you would have exerted in people around you would give you even more reasons to smile.” Chen smiled herself. Chen’s refreshing approach to tackling the marriage subject has been featured in over 300 media publications, TV and radio interviews, in 18 countries. She will be holding a Love Seminar in Los Angeles on Oct 12th....
Read MoreNew Documentary: My Father, My Mother
Combating the soaring divorce rates in Taiwan, successful marriage consultant Hellen Chen faces the toughest relationship challenge of her life - fixing her parents' marital problems that have been going on ever since Chen was born. Here is a humorous documentary of a couple who has never stopped arguing for the last 60 years. And it is also a touching demonstration of the pure love of a daughter for her parents. Preview "My Father My Mother" The documentary will be shown on August 12 Monday via the Al Jazeera media network. Please visit the link http://www.aljazeera.com/programmes/viewfinder/ on the actual day of showing to...
Read MoreA Passionate Matchmaker Helps Mother and Daughter to Find Love
Recently in Taiwan, Hellen helped two young couples to tie the knot in the same day. One of the two brides is a young lady called Eva. Her story is a unique one. Hellen has known Eva since she was 4 years old. At that time Eva's mom was going through a bad divorce and her mom's situation caught Hellen's attention. Working with the family closely, not only did Hellen help Eva's mom regain confidence in marriage and help her get married again, Hellen also help Eva to mend her own relationship with her divorced mom and dad. 16 years later, who would have guessed - the matchmaker found Eva the man of her dreams and she has begun her own journey with her prince charming. Congratulations to Eva and her husband Wes! And congrats to Austin and Val who are also match-made by Hellen and they got married on the same day. Below are the highlights of the special day! Related Article: Hellen's next Love Workshop information is found HERE...
Read MoreLos Angeles Love Seminar a Huge Success!
Hellen Chen's Love Workshop in Los Angeles completed successfully on July 20. In this seminar, we learned about what men really want to hear from women and what women really like to hear from men. Hellen talked about how to keep the love alive forever in a marriage. Here are some amazing feedback from the participants: "I learn how to be independent in a marriage and now know how to enjoy ‘problems.’ That’s a continuing ongoing energy and creation. Such a wonderful seminar! It helps me so much!" - Ging L "What I liked about today’s seminar is that what Hellen said was the concrete truth. It was not fake. Hellen spoke what she really believed and it works!" - Michael S "I realized that I spent many years trying to solve everyone’s problems around me that I was too busy to be loved or to love." - Nick B "What I like most about today’s seminar is knowing what men and women want in their relationship. I now have an idea about where I can do better in my marriage.First of all, I have to take good care of myself, be healthy, pretty and arrange my life well. Be happy. And also have more ability to handle money, life and family. Thus there will only be good things between myself and my husband, there is only love. I now really understand why don’t date before marriage. Dating could create a lot of things that aren’t real and thus create the wrong image of love and romance and yet after marriage, you don’t do the same things. But marriage is for the whole life, if there is nothing good or if there is no love in it or don’t create love, how could people stand it? I am glad that Consultant Chen helped and taught me how to do – thus I am not broken-hearted and have a happy marriage now. Thank you!" - Tiffany H...
Read MoreThe Oriental Pearl that Never Grows Old in My Heart
香港，久違了 Hello, Hong Kong! It’s been a while! 年輕時，我看著你 In my youth, I looked at you. 目不轉睛 Captivated by 你的炫麗，榮華富貴 your radiance, your richness. 好一個購物天堂 What a shopping heaven! 如今，我長大了 Now, in my adulthood, 你依然屹立不搖 you still stand strong, 高姿態地站著 standing there with high altitude. 不斷的建設 Non-stop constructing, 擴展 expanding, 改變 changing, 突破 breaking limitations. 再次光臨天堂 I re-visit heaven - 應有盡有，眼花撩亂 you have EVERYTHING - a splendor to the eyes. 物換星移 Time and land change. 不一樣的你 It is a different you; 不一樣的我 it is a different me. 你榮景依然 You are still radiant, 我也更成熟了 I am more mature. 仰慕著你 Admiring you - 我心中不老的東方之珠 the Oriental Pearl that never grows old in my heart. 再次重逢 Seeing you again, 心中有無限的感動 touches me deeply. 我們都變了，也都成長了 Both of us have changed, we have grown. 你仍是天堂 You are still heaven. 我依然是我 I am still me. Love...
Read MoreAn Unforgettable Dubai Tour
杜拜 Dubai 像一個遮著面紗的神秘女郎 Is like a mystery lady with a veil 讓人充滿欣賞、好奇與遐想 Let one be filled with admiration, curiosity and imagination. 一棟棟的奇特大樓 Breath-taking skyscrapers 一座座的獨特建築 and unique architecture. 絢麗奪目的碧海白沙 Magnificent blue sea and white sand; 極盡奢華的擺設裝飾 luxurious decorations. 燈紅酒綠的不夜城 A bustling city that never sleeps; 絡繹不絕的精品店 an abundance of exquisite stores. 機場的熱鬧人潮 The airport’s lively sea of people, 叫人忘卻一切煩惱與昨天 let one forget about all worries and yesterday. 處處可見婦幼門市 There are maternity and baby stores everywhere. 叫人不得不信 You have to believe 未來及希望確實存在 the future and hope really exist! 走在這片大沙漠 Walking on this vast desert, 快樂，自由，享樂，歡笑 happiness, freedom, enjoyment, laughter. 牽著丈夫的一隻手 Holding my husband’s hand, 他的另一隻手摟著我的肩 his arm surrounds my shoulder. 如此安心又溫馨 Feel so at ease and warm at heart, 依偎在柔情擁抱 leaning on love’s embrace. 被輕捧著 Carefully being held, 躺在他的掌心中 lie in the center of his palm. 仰望著世界最高的大樓 Admiring the world’s tallest building, 上面仍有無止盡的空間 there is still unlimited space above, reaching into infinity 頓時，身邊所有龐然大物瞬間變小 At that moment, all the giant objects around me become small, 我宛若滄海一粟 I am like a drop in the ocean. 我要好好做自己 I want to be myself. 昂首闊步走在自由的大地 Heads up and taking big strides across the free land, 慢慢傾訴無限的款款深情 unlimited love is what I will forever share. By Hellen Chen Dubai Tour 2013 ...
Read MoreFamily Expert and Marriage Consultant Hellen Chen interview on Dubai Eye
Family Expert and Marriage Consultant Hellen Chen was interviewed live on radio 103.8 Dubai Eye. Sarah Cocker, the host of Lunchtime Live spoke with Hellen about how children's development goes beyond their school grades and how to love them and NOT spoil them. Part 1 Part 2 Hellen is an international speaker an relationship expert, who has over 10 years of experience with family, relationship and marriage problems. She has helped many couples improve their marriage and have a strong relationship with their...
Read MoreHappy Mother’s Day
A mother’s work is never done, She works from morning until dawn, she spreads her love and keeps you warm. Wishing all mothers a Happy Mother's Day! How to love your mom and how to help a child if you are a mother? Family Expert Hellen Chen gives advice on Fox News TV in New...
Read MoreHow to NOT Dislike Your Mother?
How to Not Dislike Your Mother (Above: Family expert Hellen Chen addressing the topic of how to love your parents/spouse despite of who they are.) As Mother's Day comes closer, some children and mothers may feel the dread of this day – as their experience of it has had been awkward and stressful. Mother's Day is traditionally a day to celebrate the love of mothers but it could very well be a day for some sons and daughters to convey to their mother that though they would still provide her with a gift, a dinner and some flowers, they could not provide the honest love that is expected -- truth be told, they do not actually feel they could honestly like their mother. And if there are special words to express, the given Hallmark cards would 'say it perfectly' for them but if those words really are how they truly feel is a whole different question. The WikiAnswers website even has an entry on Mother's Day. Other than describing how this day was celebrated by millions around the world, the entry ended with "Mother's day is only ignored by some people who do not have good relationship with their mom for one reason or the other." So to keep up with tradition and the spirit of the special day, most daughters and sons would celebrate Mother's Day but is this simply a duty to perform? What if your mother is not all that loving or caring - in your viewpoint - would you still send her a card which tells her how wonderful she is – because it is Mother’s Day? Renowned family expert and bestselling author Hellen Chen, who has been on over 200 interviews and publications sharing relationship and family advices in America, chimed in, "Many of us have had moments where we deeply dislike our parents. Maybe our parents were too negative. Maybe they were downright mean about our accomplishments or maybe they never care." "Parents are not always right and they may not always love the child." Chen said, "Parents may feel obliged to provide for the child and the child will return the obligation when he or she gets older. But this action still does not mean there is love involved from both sides." Chen said trying to force the relationship will turn the relationship into misery for both sides. Indeed. Emilie C was a divorced mother whose only daughter had ended up in the custody of her ex-husband. Feeling that she had lost everything, she desperately wanted her daughter to feel close to her -- to the point that her daughter started hating her. After counseled by Chen, Emilie discovered some hard truths. "I actually did not love my daughter. She was the last fight I had wanted to win over my ex-husband." Emilie confessed. The road back up from the bottom was a hard long road for Emilie. Chen counseled her for about 8 years and not only she later found her confidence in a new marriage but for the first time, she has also learned how to love her child – by ceasing to fight and simply letting her daughter to be herself. From the viewpoint of a child, how does one communicate to an unchanging parent whose behavior is constantly creating rifts in the relationship? Chen smiled, "Honesty plays a big part. Another part is to act yourself and be yourself. If you insist that your parent understand you, you will end up upset and disappointed. That is not necessarily their interest – to understand you.” Many experts have advised ‘open communication’ as the best way to heal a relationship, including that between a parent and a child. However, what about the heated arguments and make-wrongs that could ensue? Chen said, "If people have bottled up their feelings too long, those outbursts are natural and they are temporary. But look, those arguments would be better than a lifetime of detachment, right? The relationship will have a chance to heal because of not keeping silent.” Chen's background has been a business...
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