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What matters the most in your life?

Posted by on May 4, 2017 in Articles, Events | 0 comments

What matters the most in your life?

At the end of life, what could you look back and really know you have not lived in vain? One thing that matters the most to me is love. I believe in love and I believe that all of us can create and live the most beautiful love story we can ever imagine! See you at my next love seminar event: Los Angeles Event: http://smarturl.it/hc-la-seminar Taiwan...

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How Do You Really Understand Someone?

Posted by on May 4, 2017 in Articles, Events | 0 comments

How Do You Really Understand Someone?

My side passion has always been to meddle in other people’s relationship issues. And over the years, in addition to being a business and management consultant, I have even earned the title of “Matchmaker of the Century.” This title was given to me by the couples I have match-made. It is not because I have match-made thousands of people. It is because the people whom I have match-made usually have hard-to-resolve issues which make them not wanting marriage. My longest record has been working with a lady for 8 years, to finally get her to say “I do.” Many people have told me the reason why they could not get married is because they have not found someone they like. What I have seen is people wasting lots of time in dating. They wanted to “make sure” someone is the right one. They hanged on to futile relationships or they break up with the person whom they should have married. Here is another issue: if you have met someone you like, how do you go about understanding that person? Do you go out with him to watch a movie? Have dinner? Kiss? Observe how he dresses? Ask about his background? The truth is: you cannot fully understand a person this way! It is not that you are not smart enough. It is the fact that even he himself does not know himself. You ask him 10 questions about life. He says, “I don’t know” or even if he gives an answer, it is not completely how he feels. Can you see the problem? He is not even sure why he gives those answers! If you really want to know a person completely, you need to use a whole lifetime and at least be with him/her! And people change. Your favorite color, food, music and hobbies all can change. So if you think you “understand” someone, I guess this could only happen if he/she never changes. For some of you, your parents or siblings have not understood you despite spending so much time together. Thus, to find a partner who can truly understand you is almost an impossible task! You spend 2 years dating this person – how well do both of you know each other? So why waste the 2 years? Why not just get married first and then try to understand each other? At least this is your better half, you will start to manage your marriage life, have kids, etc. This kind of life is real. When you are just a boyfriend and a girlfriend, what you understand and know about each other is not real – both sides are always withholding certain things. How she dresses for you at the date may not be how she dresses usually. After marriage, she may not dress this way or speak to you in the same manner. And the love sparks between you and her are just like acting in a play. No matter how much you have given for this relationship, it is like trying to fill up a bucket with water, but the bucket is filled with holes. You assume that spending more time together will help you understand each other more. I have to tell you this truth: over time, one simply has better skills to not reveal certain things and matters that get covered up between both of you will become more and more! A lady came and met me for the first time. She told me she was with her boyfriend for 8 years. And the second time she met with me again, I told her, “You can separate from your boyfriend. This year we will find someone for you and you can get married.” Tears streamed down her eyes. After one week, she separated from her boyfriend. Now she is happily married, expecting a child, and happier than ever before! This lady later asked me, “How did you know I should separate with my boyfriend?” I understood what happened. She spent 8 years with her ex-boyfriend, but there was no end to it....

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Hellen Chen’s LOVE-U-Forever Relationship Love Seminar

Posted by on Feb 8, 2017 in Articles, Events | 0 comments

Hellen Chen’s LOVE-U-Forever Relationship Love Seminar

  In January, I hosted my fifteenth Love Seminar in Los Angeles, USA. I am so humbled to have met such an amazing group of work professionals and couples. They all came from different backgrounds but they have one thing in common: they all shared similar values when it comes to love and personal improvement. Here are some incredible feedback from my students:   I thought my problem had been my shyness with women. At this event, I found out even if I had met a “perfect” match, I would have a hard time to keep this relationship going. This event woke me up. Thanks for the very powerful info on not only how to approach women but also to make relationships last.  — Ken   I loved the “practice session” in your event. I have been married for close to 10 years. There has been no major problems going on with my husband but here is where the problem lies, our relationship has no sparks or passion. You showed me what was missing — I see it all started with my communication. I don’t have to avoid saying certain things out of fear of upsetting my spouse. And I don’t have to “try so hard” to be nice. By the way, I wish to say your love seminar is the only event I have come across (I have attended other events) that truly let attendees practice how to interact with people the correct way. Please keep me informed on your future events.  — June   How I wished I had come across your seminar and materials 10 years ago!! I was the typical “busy working professional” who despite wanting to get married, kept on missing the boat. Some people envy me for my professional success and the money I make, but they never know my failures in relationships. You are the first person I met who truly helped me answer these questions: how do I find the right person and how do I know who is suitable for me? Thanks for such a clear direction!  — Angeline   I am 51 this year and was divorced for many years. I went in and out of dating men and became very frustrated on why I could not find the right person. I started to wonder “what’s wrong with me?” You showed me what really mattered to keep a relationship going. Thank you!  — Josephine   My wife and I had a very serious fight recently and she was contemplating divorce. Your workshop sheds light for me what exactly deteriorated this relationship. It was not what I thought on how we had grown apart. You showed me how both of us could fully do what we love to do in life without “compromising” for each other. We could have different interests, different friends, etc and still find a solid common ground. Your event gave me tremendous hope. I now know how to be a better man for my wife!  — Jack   I love what you taught at the event. I thought I had missed the time for finding a husband after raising 2 boys myself. I felt awkward dating and felt totally at a loss when a new date wanted to be intimate. You make having a lasting relationship SIMPLE again for me. I know now how to find my ideal mate.  — Madeline   My workshop seminars have helped men and women from all around the world on how to experience their own “happily ever after.” I developed special relationships with my students throughout the years and I have witnessed the enormous growth in both their personal and professional lives.   In case you have missed my last event, I am excited to be hosting my next Love Seminar workshop in Los Angeles on May 20, 2017. The topics I discuss in my workshops are unique and different to one another. I am always learning new skills and sharing what I have learned on what it takes to nurture and maintain meaningful relationships.   Join us for our...

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Dubai: What a spectacular city!

Posted by on May 31, 2016 in Blog | 0 comments

Dubai: What a spectacular city!

Dubai: What a spectacular city! A brand new culture of its own. A new style of living. It is a wonderful world of never-ending possibilities! Inspirational and emotional! Great!!!!!!! I am happy to join the action and experience in this new world! :)))))))                                                                                        ...

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Good morning Mumbai!

Posted by on May 31, 2016 in Blog | 0 comments

Good morning Mumbai!

Goo d morning Mumbai! :)) 早安孟買! 🙂 When I know you, 我認識你時, You’re still called Bombay. 那時的你還是叫Bombay。 Now you grow up and shine as Mumbai! 現在的你發展成為閃亮的 Mumbai !! Hi Mumbai, 嗨孟買, I have left pieces of my heart here, with you! :)) 曾經我留下部分的心在這裏,跟著你! :)) This time I want to put it in the right place. 這一次,我要把他好好地放在對的地方。 So nice to see you again! 很高興再次見到你! It touches me so much when I see you from the sky. 當我從天空看到你時,我是多麼的感動! Love is in the air; 愛充滿在空中 My heart beats with excitement! 我的心興奮地跳動著! Hi Mumbai, 嗨孟買, So nice to share my life with you.  多麼的美好,可以與你分享我的生活。 This time we have an even better time… 這一次,我們有一個更美好的時光… I will leave my heart here anyway! 我會把我的心再次留在這裏! I love you — no matter if you are called Bombay or Mumbai! :))))))) 我愛你,無論你的名字是Bombay或Mumbai ! :)))))  ...

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